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Nobody likes a backseat driver.\u00a0 You know it and your passengers know how irritating backseat drivers are, especially if the passengers in question are drivers themselves at times. However, there are times when your passengers would really like to speak up and say something, but they don\u2019t, because they don\u2019t want to be annoying. This means that at times, some things that really need to be said don\u2019t get said.<\/p>\n
So what might your passengers secretly be itching to tell you about your driving but swallowing out of desire not to get up your nose? Or (if they have been trying to say something) what have you been ignoring? Perhaps it\u2019s one of the following things\u2026<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t Corner So Hard<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes, you\u2019ve got a great car that is built to handle corners well. It\u2019s a real driver\u2019s car with the more rigid sport-tuned suspension that really lets you feel the road well so you can put your car through its paces around those tight bends. You like to get the most out of that stability control package while you fulfil your rally driver dreams as much as you can legally on a public road. Your passengers are probably not so keen on being chucked about from one side to the other as the car zooms around those corners. Even if the car has sports-style bucket seats in the front, you hardly ever get sports seats in the back, so every corner becomes a G-force nightmare. You, the driver, have a nice steering wheel to hold onto with both hands to keep yourself in position. You also have footrests and pedals to brace your feet against.\u00a0 The passengers\u2026 don\u2019t.\u00a0 At most, they\u2019ll start hanging onto the chicken handles, which give a little bit of extra stability but not anywhere as much as the steering wheel does. There also isn\u2019t a chicken handle for the middle rear seat. Believe me, if you think it\u2019s bad as a passenger in a sportily driven car in the front seat or by the windows, you wait until you\u2019ve sat in the middle with somebody on both sides of you, getting squashed AND chucked around at every turn.<\/p>\n And if you see the passengers hanging on to the passenger grips, don\u2019t say anything along the lines with \u201cWhat\u2019s the matter with you?\u201d or you might tip them over the edge.\u00a0 Save the sporty rally driving for when you\u2019re alone, or at least tone it down (and if your car has adjustable driving modes and tuning\/suspension, set it to comfort mode, not sport mode).<\/p>\n I\u2019ll Adjust The Sound System For You<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re rather proud of the sound system in your car, whether it\u2019s some snappy after-market job or the nice crisp one that came with the vehicle right from the factory floor. You want to get the most out of it by twisting knobs or tapping the touch screen to adjust the equalizer, the front-and-back balance, the bass-and-treble balance, etc. This is all very well and good, but do you have to do it while driving along at the legal speed limit?\u00a0 All too many accidents happen while the driver is fiddling around with the audio system. Steering-wheel mounted audio controls that switch mode, adjust the general volume and\/or skip forward and back have made some of the job a lot safer, but a steering wheel that has all the fine tuning and balancing for the audio either isn\u2019t available or would be just as distracting.\u00a0 Either get the settings right before you start, pull over or get your passenger to do it.\u00a0 It\u2019s alarming to be riding as a passenger watching the driver bend down to fiddle with knobs and other controls while you just sit there, watching the car drift while you sit there helplessly\u2026<\/p>\n Warn Me If It\u2019s Getting Bumpy Or Bendy<\/strong><\/p>\n Passengers don\u2019t get the fun of driving, obviously. This means that they have to find other things to do during a long journey. This is why auxiliary plugs, cup holders, reading lights and sound systems have been included in cars. However, if your passenger is in in the act of adjusting the sound system, texting or taking a sip of that coffee-on-the-go when you swoop around a corner, dodge potholes or get to that uneven and bumpy bit on the road, things get messy \u2013 literally in the case of the coffee. Often, passengers aren\u2019t concentrating on the road ahead like you are, so if they\u2019re doing things that need a bit of fine motor control, things turn to custard if their balance and momentum are affected by the G-forces and bumping that you saw coming and they didn\u2019t.\u00a0 We\u2019ll warn you if we\u2019re doing something that could get messy, but do warn us<\/p>\n Let Me Take The Wheel If You\u2019re Tired<\/strong><\/p>\n On a long-haul trip, it\u2019s easy to let fatigue settle in, so sharing the driving is best.\u00a0 Your passenger will be able to nap while you drive so he\/she can be fresh to take over the wheel. However, if you\u2019re the sort who likes to just bash on through without any fuss and just get there, your passenger may not be able to relax enough to nap and stay fresh because he\/she knows that you won\u2019t admit you\u2019re tired and need someone else to take over the wheel until you\u2019re on the point of nodding off.\u00a0 \u201cI need to stay awake to slap him\/her awake if he\/she nods off at the wheel,\u201d could be what your passenger is thinking. The result is two tired people, none of who is fit to drive safely.\u00a0 It\u2019s a lot safer (and a lot less fuss and a lot more efficient so you \u201cjust get there quickly\u201d) if you reassure the passenger that you will indeed swap seats when you get weary, so that he\/she can relax enough to put the seat back and have a snooze.<\/p>\n When I\u2019ve Got To Go, I\u2019ve Got To Go<\/strong><\/p>\n Your passenger probably doesn\u2019t want to nag you and remind you endlessly about the need to use the loo. He or she will probably say \u201cI need to pee,\u201d just the once and then expect you to find the next public loo or pull over at the next public toilet on the way (or large bush if you\u2019re out on a rural road). If you\u2019re concentrating on your driving and have to negotiate a stop sign or so and then forget what your passenger asked, he\/she will be left bursting. He\/she hasn\u2019t forgotten that they need the loo just because a fire engine whizzed past forcing you to pull over and then you saw the Audi <\/a>of your dreams in the next lane over and then\u2026<\/p>\n Be extra quick to respond in the case of small children who haven\u2019t quite got the same bladder or bowel control as adults, or in the case of a passenger who needs to throw up (see the first point about cornering). If you don\u2019t pull over as soon as possible, then you\u2019ve only got yourself to blame when there\u2019s a mess on the seats.<\/p>\n